Still feel hijacked by your reactions — even after all the work you’ve done?
You’ve spent years trying to figure this out.
You’ve peeled back layers of your past, sat in therapy rooms, maybe even taught yourself to “communicate better.”
And yet — in the moments that matter most —your body still locks up, lashes out, or shuts down before you can stop it.
It’s not a mindset problem.
It’s not that you don’t “know enough.”
Your nervous system is still doing exactly what it was wired to do: protect you.
👉 When someone pulls away, your chest tightens before you even have words.
👉 When things are good, you struggle to relax — part of you is bracing for impact.
👉 When conflict shows up, you disappear — or fight harder — even when you promised yourself you wouldn’t.
👉 You shut down or lash out, even when you swore you wouldn’t.
It’s exhausting — but it’s not the whole story.
Your body can learn a new way to respond.
I’ve seen these exact patterns in hundreds of clients — and I know it can change.
I know exactly how this feels — because I lived it for 20 years.
After two decades in therapy, I could spot every red flag, analyze every pattern, and give brilliant relationship advice to friends.
But when my partner got quiet or seemed distant? My chest would tighten instantly. When conflict came up? I'd either shut down completely or start people-pleasing like my life depended on it.
I knew I was doing it. I understood exactly why. I just couldn't stop my body from reacting.
A part of me started to wonder if I could ever feel safe in relationship.
Here's what finally broke me out of the cycle: I discovered that none of my therapists had ever addressed the real issue.
My nervous system was still stuck in survival mode.
That was the missing piece I was waiting for.
Every trigger, every shutdown, every people-pleasing episode was my body trying to keep me "safe" the only way it knew how.
Once I learned to rewire my nervous system — not just understand it, but actually change how my body responds — everything shifted.
Life changing for me and my clients. I spent the next 13 years crafting my skills in nervous system regulation and somatic work.
When your nervous system feels safe, the people-pleasing that once felt automatic... simply loses its grip.
You don't need to figure this out alone.
Eric
Emotional Safety Specialist & Nervous System Coach
The Real Cost of "I'll Figure This Out Later"
Let's be honest about what waiting actually costs you:
6 more months of:
- The same fights, the same triggers, the same emotional exhaustion
- Racing heart every time your phone buzzes with a text
- Second-guessing every word you say, every boundary you try to set
- Watching potential connections slip away because your body hits the panic button
- Living on eggshells in your own relationships
Here's what most people don't calculate:
Every month you stay in survival mode, those neural pathways get deeper. Every trigger you don't heal becomes more automatic.
The patterns don't just stay the same — they get stronger.
Your nervous system is learning that these reactions keep you "safe." The longer you wait, the more convinced it becomes that this is the only way.
But 6 weeks from today, you could be the person who stays calm when conflict arises. Who speaks their truth without spiraling. Who attracts and keeps the love they actually want.
The question isn't whether you can afford to join.
The question is: how much longer can you afford to wait?
This transformative program gives you the tools to regulate your emotions, build healthy relationships, and finally feel safe in your own body — whether you’re solo or partnered.
🔹 Disarm Your Survival Responses Recognize and redirect your fight, flight, freeze, or fawn patterns before they hijack your relationships — so you stop feeling out of control when it matters most.
🔹 Regulate Triggers Without Shutting Down
Interrupt the cycle of people-pleasing, withdrawal, or overreacting — so you can stay calm, grounded, and present in the heat of the moment.
🔹 Speak With Confidence and Clarity
Learn how to voice your needs in a way that invites connection — so you’re heard without sparking conflict or shutting down.
🔹 Create Safety From the Inside Out
Rebuild emotional security from within — so you no longer need to chase reassurance or walk on eggshells to feel okay.
🔹 Build Love That Feels Like Home
Whether you’re single or partnered, create relationships where you feel safe to be fully yourself — so love feels like a place you can finally rest.
Your Complete Transformation Package:
🔹 A 6-Week of Live Coaching with me- Weekly 75-minute session (teaching + Q&A) so you get real-time guidance, personalized feedback, and the support you need to integrate this work.
🔹 Private support group- A safe, private space to share wins, ask questions, and connect with others — so you never feel alone in this process.
🔹 1-Year Monthly Integration Calls – Join a live call every month for 12 months to deepen your learning, ask questions, and get ongoing support — so these changes stick long after the program ends.
🔹 Emergency Emotional Reset- Quick, powerful tools to calm yourself fast when life gets intense — so you can come back to center anytime, anywhere.
🔹 Guided practices series- Practices designed to rewire safety and self-trust — so you can embody this work between sessions.
🔹 Trigger Decoder Worksheets- Step-by-step worksheets that uncover what’s really driving your reactivity — so you stop looping in confusion and start creating change.
Before working with Eric, I was stuck—repeating the same patterns and unsure of my next move. He helped me identify my blind spots. He’s not about fluff or surface-level advice. If you’re stuck in the same cycles and ready for real change, he’s the guy you want in your corner. Years later, his coaching still shapes how I approach growth.
Saul
Eric is a great coach, highly skilled and extremely knowledgeable. He knows the right tools and resources to help. He is very personable and easy to talk to. I didn't feel judged or restricted in what I needed to say. He just listened and offered great advice. He draws on his own personal life experiences but does it in a way that is unbiased. His ability to add context and offer clear and sound feedback are also some key skills. I highly recommend Eric to anyone who is looking for expert coaching.
Lisa
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"Eric’s program came at the exact moment I needed it most. My marriage was at a breaking point — we had to change our destructive patterns or it was over. His explanation of core wounds, triggers, and coping mechanisms finally gave me the self-awareness to create real change. For the first time, I can take ownership and regulate myself in the heat of the moment".
— Patty
You've worked hard to grow. You've gained awareness and made changes.
But here's what most people never tell you: You can't create love while living in survival mode.
When your nervous system is bracing for impact, even the best insights can't hold. You're literally trying to build love on a foundation of fear.
Your reactions aren't random — they're the story your body learned to tell long ago.
And stories can be rewritten.
When your body learns safety, those old reactions lose their grip — and connection starts to feel possible again.
Check what feels true for you:
✔️ You’re drawn to people who pull away — even when you know it will hurt.
✔️ You overthink every text, tone, and pause, wondering if you did something wrong.
✔️ You shut down in conflict — or get louder — and regret it later.
✔️ You people-please until you disappear, then resent the person you’re with.
✔️ You can’t relax when things are calm — part of you is waiting for the crash.
✔️ You crave closeness but panic when someone gets too close.
✔️ You perform instead of connect — wearing a mask just to feel accepted.
Most approaches try to fix relationships from the mind. We're going to heal them from the body inside out.
Why Everything Else Hits a Wall
Here's the problem: When you're triggered, your nervous system decides "safe or danger" in milliseconds — before your thinking brain even knows what's happening.
This is why you can "know better" and still react the same way.
Traditional therapy works with your thinking brain. But when you're triggered, you're not thinking — you're surviving.
The Emotional Reset Code™ works differently:
We teach your nervous system to recognize safety at the body level. When your body feels safe, those automatic reactions lose their grip.
This isn't therapy. This isn't mindset work. This is nervous system rewiring that actually creates lasting change.
SAFETY. HEALING. CONNECTION.
The Proven Path to Heal Wounds, Transform Triggers & Build Love That Feels Safe
"I joined Eric's program right after his training. I almost waited—I'd been burned by other programs before. But something he said about not being able to heal from survival mode hit so deep. Three weeks in, my partner said I was like a different person. Best decision I ever made".
— Sarah M. The Emotional Reset Code™ Graduate
In just 6 weeks, you'll go from emotional chaos to emotional safety — finally breaking free from painful cycles to create love that feels secure, grounded, and REAL.
🔹 Week 2 — Master Your Nervous System
Learn to calm your body when it feels completely hijacked. Master 3 instant regulation techniques that work in under 60 seconds, so you can respond instead of react — even when everything feels like it's falling apart.
🔹 Week 1 — Break the Survival Cycle
Stop living in emotional survival mode. You'll identify the exact triggers that hijack your nervous system and shift from blame and confusion → to crystal-clear self-understanding. This is where emotional freedom begins.
🔹 Week 4 — Boundaries That Actually Work
Feel your body's "yes" and "no" signals with crystal clarity. Set boundaries without guilt, manipulation, or fear. Most importantly: protect the truth of who you are so you never fall back into people-pleasing patterns.
🔹 Week 3 — Reclaim Your True Self
Reconnect with the parts of yourself you've been hiding or abandoning. Stop showing up from survival and start showing up from wholeness — this is where authentic relationships begin.
🔹 Week 5 — Speak Your Truth Fearlessly
From silencing yourself → to authentic, powerful expression. Learn to communicate your deepest truths with love and clarity, without attacking or withdrawing.
🔹 Week 6 — Your Safe Love Blueprint
Create your personalized roadmap for lasting emotional safety. You'll know exactly how to handle setbacks, stay true to yourself, and show up authentically with unshakeable confidence — no matter what life throws at you.
A 6-Week Journey to Rewire Your Nervous System, Break Free From Old Patterns, and Experience Safe Love
By the end of these 6 weeks, you'll have your personal Safe Love Blueprint — the proven system that keeps you emotionally safe and breaks painful cycles for good.
This isn't just another program.
It's the exact system that transforms emotional chaos into lasting safety.
Transform your patterns and start building the connection you crave
"I saw myself in every one of those patterns.
I didn’t believe anything could change — but within a few weeks,
I was calmer, clearer, and actually enjoying connection instead of fearing it”.
— Alana, The Emotional Reset Code™ Graduate
87% of people stay stuck in the same patterns for years.
You don’t have to be one of them— this is where the cycle ends
What Makes It Different:
This is your moment.
You’ve spent years trying to figure this out — now it’s time to finally teach your body a new way to respond.
The patterns that once felt automatic can be rewired — so safety, connection, and calm become your new default.
Six weeks from now, you could feel calmer, safer, and more connected than you ever thought possible.
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You’ve tried figuring this out on your own — now it’s time to stop guessing and start rewiring at the root.
Your patterns can change — and it starts the moment you say yes to yourself.
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What You’ll Get Inside
The Emotional Reset Code™
STOP EMOTIONAL CHAOS
& BUILD LOVE THAT FEELS SAFE
Even If You've Done All The Work
The Truth No One Tells You
About Why You’re Still Stuck
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Is Your Nervous System Secretly Running Your Love Life ?
Why the Old Way Hasn’t Worked
⚠️ What Happens if Nothing Changes
Meet your guide
Eric Bensoussan
Emotional Safety Specialist & Nervous System Coach
This isn’t another course about communication skills or mindset hacks.
We go deeper — right to the source of the patterns: your nervous system.
When your body feels safe, everything shifts:
➡️ Reactive patterns lose their grip.
➡️ Conversations don’t spiral into fights.
➡️ Love stops feeling dangerous — and starts feeling real.
Imagine staying calm when conflict flares, speaking clearly without overexplaining, and actually repairing instead of rehashing the same fight.
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Trigger Decoder Worksheets – Get clarity on what’s really driving your reactivity
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For less than the cost of a few therapy sessions, you’ll get six weeks of guided transformation, a full year of ongoing support, and tools you can use for the rest of your life.
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I’m making this investment risk-free. I want to create the best possible program for you. If 30 days after purchase you no longer feel the program is a fit for you — then just send an email and you will receive a full 100% refund.
If this hits home, it just means your body is still doing what it learned to do years ago — keeping you safe the only way it knows how.
Your nervous system is still running from survival —and until it feels safe, every relationship will feel like walking on edge.
The good news is — safety can be taught. Your nervous system can learn a new pattern.
And that's exactly what I'm going to show you how to do.
“Before joining The Emotional Reset Code™, I was torn — unsure if I could be okay whether my partner stayed or left. I wanted tools to find harmony within myself and my relationship.
Through somatic practices and nervous system regulation tools, I’ve learned how to care for my inner child, set healthy boundaries, and show up with more calmness and freedom.
Eric’s coaching style gave me both guidance and the freedom to take ownership of my healing. I now feel confident navigating relationships — knowing that the love I show myself sets the tone for every connection I have.”
Allison- The Emotional Reset Code™ Graduate
This program came at exactly the right moment in my healing journey. For most of my life, I struggled to feel safe in my own body — to even notice my patterns, let alone change them.
The Emotional Reset Code™ gave me daily practices to pause, connect with myself, and clearly communicate my boundaries. The shift I’ve seen in just two months has been incredible — I finally feel safer with myself and in my relationships.”
Patty- The Emotional Reset Code™ Graduate
This is your chance to join the final 2025 cohort before the price increases for future rounds
Join me, Eric Bensoussan, Relationship & Nervous System Coach, featured in USA News, and Womens Insider for pioneering Emotional Safety as the new foundation for connection.
A 6-week live experience designed to teach your body what safety feels like — so you can stop running old survival programs and start creating the love you’ve been craving.
Introducing
The Emotional Reset Code™
Before
⚡ You overthink every text, tone, and pause — wondering what you did wrong
⚡ You shut down or explode during conflict — then regret it later
⚡ You people-please, disappear, and then resent your partner
⚡ You can’t relax when things are good — always bracing for the crash
⚡ Love feels like walking on eggshells
After
🌱 You feel grounded and trust the connection without spiraling
🌱 You stay calm, speak clearly, and repair faster than ever
🌱 You honor your needs and set boundaries without guilt
🌱 You feel safe enough to let love in and actually enjoy it
🌱 Love feels like home — steady, safe, mutual
“I’ve done therapy before — how is this different?”
Therapy gives you insight. This program rewires your nervous system so those insights actually stick when you’re triggered — no more spiraling after you “know better.”
“What if I get triggered during the program?”
That’s exactly where the healing happens. I’ll guide you through proven regulation practices so you learn to calm your body in real time, safely.
“Will this work if I’m single?”
Yes. This work starts with you — so you can create safety with yourself first. Whether you’re single or partnered, you’ll learn to show up differently in every relationship and start building love that feels grounded, mutual, and safe.
“What if I can’t attend live?”
All sessions are recorded and uploaded within 24 hours. You’ll never miss out — and you can revisit the recordings anytime you need a reset.
Still Wondering If This Is For You?
Here's what I discovered that no one else was teaching...
But first, let me share something that might surprise you about why you're still struggling...
This is exactly what happens when your nervous system finally feels safe. And here's why waiting makes it harder...
This is your chance to RESET.
This is our last Enrollment for 2025 — and there are only 5 spots left.